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Anybody think the fear just may be from a past life?

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skahlua912

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Okay, I am 23 years old.

 I have the WORST fear of driving. I throw up going behind the wheel. I have nightmares about accidents.

 My first word was "car". My mom told me I pointed to a car and said it (when in Sweden). At a young age, while other girls drew rainbows and played with Barbies, I drew sports cars and many of them (and they were GOOD drawings of cars, not just scribbles).

 I am the calmest person I know. I am not afraid of confrontation and am great under pressure and other scenarios where others lose their cool, so this is beyond frustrating for me.

 My first driving lesson, the car lost control while the INSTRUCTOR was driving and his face was smashed in. I felt like it was because of my negative energy and the countering energy.

 I have gotten a permit, but let it expire. I even bought a cute convertible but sold it.

I feel like nobody understands this. I am in L.A. and EVERYBODY drives and, unlike the countries I grew up in in Europe, public transportation has a stigma which is hard to ignore (not to mention the buses here are just horribly slow).

I would love to talk to others who have this type of terror of driving.

I don\'t have parents to teach me to drive. I have asked my best friends but they decline or say "later". I would love some referral of some driving instructor who knows how to deal with this. This is my one fear and one thing I do not like about myself. 


MrB

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 I meditate at least two to three times a day,I can handle pressure pretty well,but when it comes to driving sometimes it feels like I just freeze.My arms and legs go completely numb and I can\'t even think straight.

I am also very "spacey",and I constantly get very lost into visions or daydreams I\'m having.So that\'s another reason why I\'m afraid to even try to learn.If I were to get into an accient by myself I wouldn\'t care,but I just don\'t want to hurt anyone else because I\'m on some other planet.

 Also I live in Arizona where everyone drives.And I\'m also going to be 23 in a few months,so it does feel kind of embarassing that I can\'t drive.

Do you know what the funny thing is though?When the both of us eventually do get over this fear,we\'ll probably be constantly driving around all over the place.


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Awkward123

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It could be a past life trauma- I\'ve heard crazier things.  But lets face it- cars are very dangerous, and it kind of makes sense to be afraid of them, not to mention, its not natural to be propelling yourself at such a high rate of speed!  Sometimes I think we\'re not the crazy ones… its the people who can get behind the wheel every day without realizing they are seriously risking their lives that have a screw loose!

 Then again maybe that\'s the anxiety talking.  Personally, I just wish there were an easier, safer, less environmentally destructive alternative that would still maintain a person\'s individual independence, but until that means of transportation manifests… I\'m stuck with driving if I want to get around this crazy world.   Mr.B- I have the same spaced out thing going on in the car oftentimes, which terrifies me.  Its not that I\'m ADD- I\'m just really mentally active, I\'m always getting distracted by my imagination.  I\'ll be on the hwy and start thinking about the lives of all the other drivers and wondering about them and I will really have to marshall my concentration again.  Ugh its all dreadful.  

Anyway, now that I have discovered this forum, I\'m starting to feel better and more confident now that I know I\'m not the only other driver on the road that is shaking in my boots!!